A few years ago I was helping to coach my son's soccer team. They were playing in their last regular season game and because of the team's record, the next week they'd be playing in the championship game.
After the game I talked with the team and asked, "What's the most important thing you can do to help our team win next week?" They began searching their memories about all the things we'd talked about during the season. They came up with things like "passing the ball," "teamwork," "communication," "cheering each other on," and a few more things too.
Each time they gave me an answer, I responded, "That's important, but what's more important than that?" Soon they had run out of ideas and I added, "The most important thing that's going to help us win next week is you showing up. If you don't show up, then all the other things won't matter." We all needed to be there for the complete team to work together, for the whole team to give us the best chance possible.
Since then I've realized that concept applies to other parts of our lives, including Youth Ministry. Youth Ministry begins with Y-O-U, and TRY completes it. Each of us is the YOU who TRY to help make it a good and alive experience for all. If you think something is worthwhile, fun, enjoyable, etc., then most likely others would feel the same way too.
Many youth and adults continue to help make Youth Ministry at Church a vibrant program in the Catechesis classes, the community building gatherings, the Retreats, the seasonal activities and the Service Opportunities. I have a few good memories of my high school Youth Ministry experience, and that's part of why many opportunities and possibilities have been on the schedule in the past year.
When you look back at your high school Youth Minstry experience, will you have many great memories, a few good ones, or unhappy thoughts that you didn't get to do the things you wanted. Got ideas? Take that important step; Show up, and share them!
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